add isNamedTuple; make $(1, 2) be (1, 2) instead of (Field0: 1, Field1: 2) which leaked implementation detail (#10070)

* add `isNamedTuple`; make $(1, 2) be (1, 2) instead of leaking implementation detail (Field0: 1, Field1: 2)
  fixes this: #8670 (comment) /cc @alehander42 @Vindaar @mratsim

* Note: isNamedTuple is useful in other places, eg #10010 (comment)

* move isNamedTuple to helpers.nim to avoid exposing new symbol to system.nim

* remove workaround in tests/vm/tissues.nim failing test now that #10218 was makes it work

tests/errmsgs/tnested_generic_instantiation2.nim

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+discard """
+errormsg: "generic instantiation too nested"
+"""
+
+#[
+bug #4766
+see also: tnested_generic_instantiation.nim
+]#
+
+proc toString*[T](x: T) =
+  for name, value in fieldPairs(x):
+    when compiles(toString(value)):
+      discard
+    toString(value)
+
+type
+  Plain = ref object
+    discard
+
+  Wrapped[T] = object
+    value: T
+
+converter toWrapped[T](value: T): Wrapped[T] =
+  Wrapped[T](value: value)
+
+let result = Plain()
+toString(result)