sink parameter inference for types that have destructors (#13544)

* ensure capitalize doesn't take an inferred sink parameter

* sink parameter inference: first version, for now disabled. Changed that sink parameters can be consumed multiple times in order to adhere to our spec.

* sink inference can now be disabled with .nosinks; sometimes for proc type interop this is required

* fixes yet another critical DFA bug

* better implementation that also understands if expressions etc

* document sink parameter inference and allow for global disabling

compiler/commands.nim

@@ -877,6 +877,8 @@ proc processSwitch*(switch, arg: string, pass: TCmdLinePass, info: TLineInfo;
       localError(conf, info, "unknown Nim version; currently supported values are: {1.0}")
   of "benchmarkvm":
     processOnOffSwitchG(conf, {optBenchmarkVM}, arg, pass, info)
+  of "sinkinference":
+    processOnOffSwitch(conf, {optSinkInference}, arg, pass, info)
   of "": # comes from "-" in for example: `nim c -r -` (gets stripped from -)
     handleStdinInput(conf)
   else: