[error messages, stacktraces] fix #8794 #9270 #9767 #9768 (#9766)

* fixes #8794 : `Error: undeclared field: 'foo'` should show type (+ where type is defined) (hard to guess in generic code)

* fixes #9270: `--listFullPaths` not honored by `declared in foo.nim` messages

* fixes #9767: VM stacktrace doesn't honor --excessiveStackTrace:on

* fixes #9768: VM stacktrace misses column info, can lead to ambiguous or harder to read stacktraces

* refactors some col+1 code to col + ColOffset (self documents code)

* make getProcHeader show declared info location also for types and all routine kinds (including macros,templates) instead of just (rather arbitrarily) for iterator,proc,func,method

* --listFullPaths now is honored in more places

* fix typo system/except.nim => lib/system/excpt.nim

* remove substr(foo, 0) hack in compiler/vm.nim which seems old and not applicable anymore

tests/errmsgs/t8794.nim

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+discard """
+  cmd: "nim check $options $file"
+  errormsg: ""
+  nimout: '''
+t8794.nim(39, 27) Error: undeclared field: 'a3' for type m8794.Foo3[declared in m8794.nim(1, 6)]
+'''
+"""
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+## line 20
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+## issue #8794
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+import m8794
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+when false: # pending https://github.com/nim-lang/Nim/pull/10091 add this
+  type Foo = object
+    a1: int
+
+  discard Foo().a2
+
+type Foo3b = Foo3
+var x2: Foo3b
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+proc getFun[T](): T =
+  var a: T
+  a
+
+discard getFun[type(x2)]().a3