cursor and mutation tracking fixes (#15113)

* fixes #15110
* fixes #15096

* prepare varpartitions for cursor inference
* new cursor inference begins to work
* make tests green

tests/arc/topt_cursor2.nim

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+discard """
+  output: '''emptyemptyempty'''
+  cmd: '''nim c --gc:arc $file'''
+"""
+
+# bug #15039
+
+import lists
+
+type
+  Token = ref object of RootObj
+    children: DoublyLinkedList[Token]
+
+  Paragraph = ref object of Token
+
+method `$`(token: Token): string {.base.} =
+  result = "empty"
+
+method `$`(token: Paragraph): string =
+  if token.children.head == nil:
+    result = ""
+  else:
+    for c in token.children:
+      result.add $c
+
+proc parseLeafBlockInlines(token: Token) =
+  token.children.append(Token())
+  token.children.append(Token()) # <-- this one AAA
+
+  var emNode = newDoublyLinkedNode(Token())
+  var i = 0
+
+  var it = token.children.head
+  while it != nil:
+    var nxt = it.next  # this is not a cursor, it takes over ownership.
+    var childNode = it
+    if i == 0:
+      childNode.next = emNode # frees the object allocated in line 29 marked with AAA
+    elif i == 1:
+      emNode.next = childNode  #
+    it = nxt # incref on freed data, 'nxt' is freed
+    inc i
+
+proc parse() =
+  var token = Token()
+  token.children.append Paragraph()
+  parseLeafBlockInlines(token.children.head.value)
+  for children in token.children:
+    echo children
+
+parse()