Support compiling and running either _runme.c or _runme.cxx files for
the given test (but not both).
Add a simple C++ test file to check that it actually works.
Make "make check-c-examples" perform the correct build commands, e.g. not link
the proxy code into the shared library as this can't work because it defines
the same functions that are already present in it.
Also fix the c_xxx targets to work when SWIG is built in a separate build
directory.
Finally, simplify them by removing the unnecessary variables.
Notice that std_vector example still doesn't build, but at least now it is due
to a real problem in the C module and not makefile bugs.
